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05-06-2007, 01:49 AM
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#1 | | Greenhorn
Join Date: May 2007 Location: USA
Posts: 8
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Now the title might seem a bit random, but I couldn't think of anything else at the moment.
OK, I have a surprising question, I guess you could say.
Should I stop asking girls out, and just focus on my school work?
The reason for this is well this: I have asked out 16 girls, and I liked them, maybe not to much, but still liked them. Well they all said no, and I like that's kind of sad, to see or hear. So I'm wondering should I not ask them out, and just get on with my life, or should I go for it? I'm 16, and I know I don't need a girlfreind, but there's some girls in my school that I really like, and want to start a relationship with. Any advice? | 
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05-06-2007, 01:53 AM
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Join Date: May 2006
Posts: 29,334
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I guess my advice would be: "Stop trying hard" because the real thing just happens one day. I'm not saying stop totally, but most times the right person comes into your life when you are not looking for it 
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05-06-2007, 01:59 AM
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#3 | | Greenhorn
Join Date: May 2007 Location: USA
Posts: 8
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Thanks. I'm just wondering when that day would be, I've tried that, but if she does, I don't think I would realize it. | |
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05-06-2007, 05:19 AM
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Join Date: May 2006 Location: Philippines
Posts: 5,629
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Yes, I agree with Alltopix.
It would be better too if you know more the girl you like.
Be her friend first.
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05-08-2007, 04:17 AM
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Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Los Angeles,california
Posts: 1,422
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focus on one girl and get to know her. if you ask out a lot of girls then word gets around and no one will say yes, make her feel like shes the only one. does that make any sense?
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05-11-2007, 10:52 PM
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#6 | | Greenhorn
Join Date: May 2007 Location: USA
Posts: 8
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Yeah, it makes perfect sense. Sorry for the late response. I'm going out Sunday hopefully, if my parents don't ruin it by saying I can't go or some sh*t. | |
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05-11-2007, 11:04 PM
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Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Los Angeles,california
Posts: 1,422
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alright. good luck. =]
__________________ We're friends, real friends. And that means, no matter how long it takes, when you finally decide to look back, I’ll still be here. - Grey's Anatomy | |
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05-12-2007, 05:28 PM
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Join Date: May 2007 Location: Inverness, Scotland, UK
Posts: 115
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Yeah, find a nice girl. Although, If you think about her too much your life will go wierd. It happens. I know. =] | |
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05-12-2007, 05:48 PM
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Join Date: May 2006 Location: Canada
Posts: 494
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Being friends with the girl first, is key.
I know I for one would never date a guy I hardly knew.
I wanna get to know him as a friend before I jump leapfrog into a relationship.
But I think its really .. kinda amazing. At yer perseverance and lack of fear of rejection. Good on ya! | |
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05-14-2007, 01:31 AM
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#10 | | Greenhorn
Join Date: May 2007 Location: USA
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The only reason why I don't fear rejection is because I have been. Thanks for the advice all. | |
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