advice? =/

**Fun** · 06-12-2007, 05:30 AM

Hmm...its kind of embarasing to post here but I'll suck it up cause I need someone elses input on things.

So...I got a boyfriend and he's like...He doesnt give me any space at all like he's all over me all the timee and it's kinda annoying. I don't like making out in front of my friends and it seems like thats all he wants to do. We've only been going out for a week and I'm already tired of him. Should I tell him to back off a little or end it? And he tells me he loves me every 10 minutes and I change the subject because I don't want to lie to him by saying it back. It bothers me that he throws "I love you" around I mean seriously love is a strong word. Should I tell him that its not working out? I don't want to hurt him, he's a good guy and not to mention hes friends with all of my friends so they'll be pissed at me. But seriously, its only been a week and im already complaining, its not gonna last. I'm sure as hell not going through summer like this. =/

**aribelle_xo** · 06-12-2007, 08:30 AM

Well, you probably need to talk to him about it at least.
I mean, maybe he can fix it.
So it depends on if you want him to, or if you really do want to end it.
Or if you even think he could change.

But yeah, if you think you could save it, just try. [:
But don't think you have to do anything you don't want to do.
For one thing, it's your body, and only you get to decide what he does with it.
He needs to respect that.
Also, throwing around the words "I love you" is a pretty big thing...
You're definitely right about that part.

Sorry. I'm terrible at giving advice. xD

**jinalyn** · 06-12-2007, 02:23 PM

Talk to him about it. Tell him what you really feel . Hmm, it would be better to tell him to back off a bit 'coz you're not comfortable about it. But if ever he doesn't change, then I think you should end it early than to to keep trying on working it out.

**Fun** · 06-13-2007, 06:33 AM

I don't know how I feel about him. Sometimes I feel like I like him and sometimes I feel like I dont like him at all and then I avoid him as much as possible. If it doesn't get better in the next couple of days I'll tell him it isnt working out. Thanks for the advice, girls. Aribelle, what are you talking aboutt? Your advice is awesome. <3 =]

**jinalyn** · 06-13-2007, 07:00 AM

That's good Alex, observe the situation first and give it a couple of days.. then decide what you really wanan do about it. Weigh things fairly.

**Fun** · 06-13-2007, 11:57 PM

Ok, so I definately dont like him. Now I have to figure out how to break up with him. =/

**jinalyn** · 06-14-2007, 07:21 AM

There's no easy way to break somebody's heart so yeah, all you can do is to tell him personally and properly. Tell him the real reasons why you think it's nor working.

**Fun** · 06-15-2007, 02:41 AM

Well, i broke up with him. I didnt have enough guts to do it in person so I did it over AIM. And now all of my friends are like why would you do that? he really likes you! Am I a freakin' robot or something? They act like I dont have any feelings. It pisses me off that they're mad at me.

**jinalyn** · 06-15-2007, 07:25 AM

They don't have the right to be like that on you because they're not the ones who will be suffering or being bothered if that relationship isn't working and yet you didn't end it up.

**Fun** · 06-16-2007, 08:40 PM

i know. i dont even care anymore. thanks for the advice girls. *hugs*