Hey,
I don't think we are supposed to talk about anything in particular. I think guy are more in the action than the "reflection" side
I think we miss a lot of thing and that culturally, males (child, boy, teen, man, whatever age) are educated to not talk about their feeling and thougt, as this is "supposely" a proof of weakness. I mean our western culture shows the male as dominant & strong. Havinf feelig is the opposite of that image. Look for example the vikings.
So I don't think they are any secret to be told, but man have not that habit. I'm trying my self to pass over this and talk as open as possible.. and by the way, girls like that, when a guy opens his heart. I would say, a man is tronger when he recognise his supposely weakness and talk about what he feels.
this couls be strange at first, but well, it helps anybody to grow a little from te inside. But of course you need to care about that.
And guys caring about other guys can be seen as..... gay and weak... But does it really ?
My example : the company I'm working for now 2 years is shutting down. I'll be with no job be the end of the month. I really don't know what I would do after that. It was for me very hard to find the kind of job I currently have (server administrator & php/mysql developper). And I'm really worrying what I will find, what I will do for even christmas. Where I'm leaving, jobs in computer branch isn't very much looked. Soooooo... I'm just sick looking for jobs.
I can tell you I didn't sleep very well these last 2 week nights. I got not much money in advance....
Ok, you could not care about what is happening to me. I could have not tell you this.. and why not ? In some way this helps me support this situation better, and maybe sharing my worries about tomorrow may hit someone and gives ideas to write and shares some ideas to not worry, or less... I don't know.. but this helps already a little.
Hope this helps anybody out there understanding the topic
twen
(the story is true.. it's happening currently to me)
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