Grr.

**aribelle_xo** · 05-10-2007, 04:59 AM

Okay, so I need advice. Seriously.
So this isn't the first time that has happened to me.
But anyway.
Well, I really, really like this guy.
But when I figured that out, he had a girlfriend,
so I decided I had to wait.
Because what else could I have done?
So anyway, then they broke up.
He wasn't upset about it, and told me he hated being single.
So...then I told him that I really like him,
and he was like "Really?...I kinda feel the same about you."
In those exact words. Is the "kinda" a bad sign?

Then he didn't say anything else about it for about three days.
So then I was like;
"Okay, so we're both single, but neither of us likes being single,
and supposably we both really like each other, so..."

But then he was just like;
"yeah...but I have a date this weekend. I have since last weekend."
Everyone told me it just meant he already had plans,
and that he didn't lie or cancel plans. Or whatever.

So his date was this girl named Tina.
But now, all of a sudden, he has a new girlfriend, and it's not even Tina.
It's this girl who lives in New Jersey, that he only knows online.

So does that mean he only pretended to like me to be nice, or something?
Or what?
I'm just really confused and upset...
and I'm tired of this happening.

**jinalyn** · 05-10-2007, 06:02 AM

He said "kinda".. so yeah I think he's not really into liking you that much that makes him to start dating another girl 'coz if he really likes you then why not date you?
Sorry but I feel like this guy is someone you don't deserve.

**Fun** · 05-11-2007, 01:16 AM

hmmm.....well maybe he does like you but maybe he's not worth it. i dont get why he would tell you he likes you then go on a date then get a girlfriend. *sigh*.... men... well anyway , if he's worth it then he'll come around and ask you out.

**twen** · 05-13-2007, 11:59 AM

From a french point of view, having a date deosn't mean this guy is with this girl..... For me, you still have a way to get him. However, if you see he is going too much from one girl to another, he could be someone uncertain of what he wants (yet). To be sure, just look atthe girls he is dating, and honestly look what "kind" of girls he likes. If you see you're too different from them (for example : different style, different taste, etc...), them may be, he is not really for you... This also means that your prince is still waiting for you !

**Nate** · 05-13-2007, 08:08 PM

no no no no no. My ex is like this now. Don't anaylize everything when he said "Kinda" that wasn't a bad thing. He is one of those people who thinks it really really sucks being single and will just go out with anyone. I don't understand those types of people but I guess he is just like that.

**jinalyn** · 05-14-2007, 01:49 PM

But still I don't think he's worth it. Why would he say .. "kinda" if he's all in it? And why would he keep dating girls if he really likes her?

**Napster** · 06-05-2007, 12:37 AM

I dont think he likes you,
He's just looking for the better one.Like picking.Choosing which one is the better,.
So I'd say leave him...Coz he is useless.

**~PaMeLa~** · 06-10-2007, 12:25 PM

From my point of view atm...on how ive been treated kinda aint enough u do or u dont!

**aribelle_xo** · 06-12-2007, 07:58 AM

Yeah, most of you were right. ]:
So now I have an update.

His girlfriend cheated on him, then broke up with him.
He wanted to kill himself and all...
I asked if I could do anything to help, and he asked me to come over.
So I talked to him for a few hours at his house.
Then when I got home, he called me and asked me out. -.-

Then, we went out for like...ten days.
He was my first kiss...but...that doesn't matter now I guess.

So anyway, one night he was like "I just wanted to tell you I love you before I go to sleep,"
and the next morning he broke up with me. ]:

He said because I'm moving, but that doesn't make sense for two reasons.
1. I'm staying in Georgia. I'd still see him a lot.
2. He knew I was moving way before he asked me out.

Then, I met this girl on myspace, Nina.
About two days later.
I talked to her about Anthony, because I was upset, and she was like;
"Awwww, well, I hope you get back together. He'll see what he lost and go back to you. ]:"

Then the next day?
He's going out with her!

Now here's the crazy thing.
She lives in California.

Am I the only one confused?
:/

**~PaMeLa~** · 06-12-2007, 12:46 PM

Seems like a playa to me!