Tsukasa

Yes, I have talked to her about it, though I did not bother asking her about her sickness since I think she's not ready to talk about it.
The only thing she had told me is that she wants to talk to the guy again, but finds it hard to do so since it seems like he doesn't want to talk with her yet. She told me that whenever she opens her Yahoo Messenger and sees him online, he suddenly goes offline. When I told her that maybe its just by chance, we later found out that he appears online to everybody else besides her, in other words, he's invicible only to her.

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jinalyn

Oh yeah,i know it! stealth settings lol.
I also do that when I avoid someone coz in yahoo you could stealth
your settings and make u look offline to a person but to others,ul still be seen online.

Hmm, she could just email,or leave him an offline msg..
Or when she sees it online and then goes invisible, then she could just give him a msg still so that the guy would really feel that she didn't mean to hide it to hurt him or what.

If she really wants to have that guy again,I mean,if he is worth it to be chased for now.. then I guess she should do it..coz after all,seems like there is no enough reason fro her to hide her sickness if it wasn't that serious.

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Tsukasa

Don't know about that though...
Anyhow, my other friends are also doing their part in 'shedding light' to the matter...although I doubt it would do much since the guy doesn't seem to have interest in talking with her again or hanging out around us anymore...*sigh*

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jinalyn

Oh.. is that guy a quite type?
coz if that's so.. then it's really hard to make him feel ok again.

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Tsukasa

Not really, he's sort of like the chasing-girls type of guy, to be frank, he's quite loud...you'll know he's around even if your at the second floor of our school and I'm not lying about that.

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jinalyn

Haha lol! that sounds funny.. he's really loud coz u would always notice when he's around..
He is really serious on his decision on avoiding ur friend..
There's that trait of a guy like when they think it's over,then it's really over.

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Tsukasa

Over?
You mean their friendship?

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jinalyn

Yep,their friendship...
But for sure it could be coped up if they're willing to talk all about it again..
they really need to talk.. but since the guy doesn't show any interest in talking.. then that's really a big prob.

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Beautiful_Loser

I don't get what the big deal is. Your girl friend was only absent for two days and if she wants to keep what happened private I think the guy should respect that. Maybe the sickness she had was just to embarassing to tell her guy friend.

Either way though I learned not to take sides. You can try and be the medium that gets your to friends to patch things up but I've been there and it isn't fun. I'm sure after a while they'll stop fighting but if not for a while maybe you'll want to step in. Let them know that this isn't worth ruining a friendship over.

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Fun

You should just try to stay out of it as hard as you can. The problem is between them two, they shouldn't drag anyone else into it. The girl doesn't have to tell your guy friend anything maybe it was personal and he shouldn't push her.

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