Tsukasa

lol, I wasn't really choosing sides at all...and I am staying out of it the best I can, it's just that my girl friend keeps on asking me for advice and it's hard in that aspect to stay neutral at times...

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Giving up is for losers, I don't want to be a loser so I won't give up no matter what.

Each of us have our own point of view, no matter what someone may tell you, never loose faith in yourself and in what you believe is true.

jinalyn

Aren't they talking yet? How often do they see each other?
What's their update?

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Tsukasa

Still not talking with each other.
They see each other almost everyday since both she and the guy lived at the same village and goes to the same school.
I wanted to talk to the guy to see what his problem is, but I'm afraid that that would look like I'm taking sides.

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Giving up is for losers, I don't want to be a loser so I won't give up no matter what.

Each of us have our own point of view, no matter what someone may tell you, never loose faith in yourself and in what you believe is true.

jinalyn

It's obviously a big deal to the guy..
The reason is kinda shallow but he must have really expected that the girl would tell it to her that's why he is actin' like this.

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Tsukasa

I guess so, but I really want him to act more matured for his age...he's acting like a kid........

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Giving up is for losers, I don't want to be a loser so I won't give up no matter what.

Each of us have our own point of view, no matter what someone may tell you, never loose faith in yourself and in what you believe is true.

jinalyn

He felt so bad coz of it for sure.

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twen

Well... It's known that girl are more mature than guy in the teen age... Boys are far more stupid, that's true (I'm a guy, so I know a little )

I must say you are very courageous to take the 'affair' to you... But very carefull, as you said, taking side isn't a very good option. You need to be very confident with booth of them. jinalyn gives very good explanation, and I agree.

Loving someone means that you want to be with some one, but truly loving means that you are ready to leave that person with it's secret. That's tha most hard part of love, but also the most beautiful.

There's a phrase I like, I hope it'll help you as it helped me :
"If you want to be happy for one 1 hour, go and get a nap
If you want to be happy for a month, marry
If you want to be happy for a lifetime, help a friend"

Twen

Tsukasa

lol...that's quite something.
But i wouldn't call myself courageous or anything, it's just that my girl friend asked me for advice and to help her on the matter...

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Giving up is for losers, I don't want to be a loser so I won't give up no matter what.

Each of us have our own point of view, no matter what someone may tell you, never loose faith in yourself and in what you believe is true.

jinalyn

Any updates about it?

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Tsukasa

Nope...we're on vacation now and I have not heard from my friends at all...seems like none of us have any cellphone loads...

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Giving up is for losers, I don't want to be a loser so I won't give up no matter what.

Each of us have our own point of view, no matter what someone may tell you, never loose faith in yourself and in what you believe is true.